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This is the most comprehensive material on the web that is dedicated to preventing women from having unnecessary breast reduction surgeries. This is probably the only anti-breast reduction source of information anywhere! Read on and learn! Welcome to the other side of the breast reduction issue. I am urging naturally large breasted women who may be considering breast reduction surgery to explore the real issues behind the common claims for wanting one. I further challenge women to have a positive healthy attidude towards their breasts and to be able appreciate them just the way they are. This website is not about "coping" with large natural breasts as I refuse to regard them as burdens. This is about women being able to able to cast aside the Hollywood or media's version of what breasts should look like, render useless those who cannot accept them, and sport a positive healthy image as a naturally buxom woman.
This page is only an introduction into this issue. Further information and discussions are also included in this site.
I'm in Favor Of Big Natural Breasts
Purpose BanBreastReductions.com was created to bring attention to an issue that I am very passionate about - the horrifying concept (and unfortunately the reality) of breast reduction surgeries. This page is directed towards WOMEN who may be considering this procedure. Men, please, by all means, if you know of a woman who is considering having breast reduction surgery or continually complains about her breasts, please refer her to this page before she does anything. Even if you do not know anyone, it will not hurt you to become informed so you can arm yourself with this myth shattering information about large natural breasts. BACK TO CHERRY BRADY: BREAST AVENGER Disclaimer First, I want to say that I am using the term "ban" loosely. I'm not in favor of banning hardly anything. When we "ban" things, we give away our rights and our individual freedom to choose and I think that we do that much too often. I am merely using the word "ban" as a way of drawing attention to the ridiculous practice of breast reductions. And of course, I shouldn't have to say this but... the material presented herein is not intended to provide any sort of medical advice whatsoever! This is a biographical and biased editorial based solely on my experiences as a large breasted woman.
Introduction If you are a woman with large natural breasts who has clicked onto this page because you might consider this surgery, I want to say that I am sorry. I truly am sorry that someone or society in general has made you feel ugly because of your breasts. Believe me, I know what you have endured because of your large natural breasts. I have been through it too - the snide remarks... the comments under the breath... the disgusted glares... and the boldface condemnation. Let me give you just a few examples...
Sad But True, It Happens to Me Too Case A Last year I went to a Memorial Day pool party. I was wearing a bikini, standing in the kitchen and an acquaintance I know glared at me and said, Now, I've known this woman for about 7 years and she may have been joking, but she still said it to my face and in front of everyone (and by the way, she wasn't joking). Well apparently, no one had ever taught her any social manners. Even if she did think my breasts were disgusting like the Elephant Man‘s disfigured face, surely she had been taught not to stare nor pass judgment on us less fortunate folk. It was a very rude comment and she said it to scold me for daring to wear a bikini in which my god-given breasts overflowed. By the way, the woman who said it wasn't a small breasted woman. In fact, she was augmented! Yes! - She had a boob job to make her tits bigger yet she had just told me that I should lob off a considerable portion of mine! Hypocritical, I’d say! I suppose if I ever got a breast reduction that I would make her happy. Case B I once got sent home from work because I was showing an inch of cleavage! It was an informal training class and I was wearing just normal clothes that every other girl wears, not club attire, not skin tight, not even flashy! I had a cold and was feeling glum that day and was definitely not dressed to impress anyone with my amazing ta ta's! - Just drab work attire. I can't help it if I fill my top out differently than other women. Sometimes, even when the top button is buttoned on a modest v-neck blouse, a little bit of the top of my cleavage shows. It just so happened that the woman who was running the class was a very insecure cold bitch who abused her authority that day. She embarrassed me and made a scene. I went home crying. Case C Another time I remember vividly was when I walked by a group of girls in college. As I walked by, one girl said to the others, Well, needless to say I wasn't sticking my chest out, just standing up straight. That was years ago and I have since endured many similar remarks. Case Findings I found that over time, I started scrunching my shoulders in. It wasn't until I was at a gym one day and an older gentleman pointed that out to me. I was doing some Seated Rows and he told me to sit up straight, to stop hunching forward. He said, I didn't even realize that I was doing that but I definitely was. Ever since then, I have made to a conscious effort to stand tall and walk proud. You see, I didn't even realize that years of snide remarks and jealous comments had made me subconsciously slouch to avoid the same comments. The Verdict Well I've come a long way from that. I am a little older, wiser and self confident now and those type of comments don't go unresponded to anymore. I know it's hard sometimes, but you have to realize that the people who are making the comments are just jealous of you. They hate that you have bountiful breasts and they do not. Don't believe me? Then why do more than 240,000 women get breast enhancement surgeries in the United States per year? (1) The ones who are not jealous, like your family, but still want you to get the surgery have been programmed by media standards of what your breast are supposed to look like. If it’s not what they are used to seeing, then they assume that your breasts must not be normal.
Man Trouble Some Men Don’t Like You Either! Here's a shocker for you, some men hate you for your breasts! What you have to realize is that some men are just angry at women. Who knows why - maybe because they can't ever get all the free poontang they want or; they avoid their own personality/behavior issues by transferring the blame onto women or; maybe they are insecure about the size of their penises and they hate that your sexuality is on display and theirs isn't or; maybe the sight of you, with your big sexy breasts elicits sexual thoughts and they are the type of men who separate their women into two categories, the whores and the saints. ... hell I don't know! One thing I do know is that you won't find a shortage of men who want to have sex with you. It's natural - men are instinctually attracted to large breasts. It's a sign of fertility and their testosterone tells them that they need to breed! The important thing to know is that JUST BECAUSE A GUY WANTS TO FUCK YOU, DOESN"T MEAN HE LIKES YOU! (Painfully obvious observation, isn‘t it?) I've known a lot of women who don't seem to understand that and keep making the same one night stand mistakes over and over again. A lot of men want to have sex with you just to put a notch in their belt and then they can say, Of course these men could never marry you or anything...I mean come on, are they going to bring your sexually fertile looking self to their mother’s house? You couldn't possibly be a good wife with a body of a whore, a body that men lust after!
Sometimes YOU Don’t Like You! What's the problem? You don't have the body that men lust over? No one ever asks you out? Have you ever considered that because of your breasts, you are unapproachable? Maybe you don't wear make-up or you cut your hair short, wear baggy unflattering clothes, maybe you have a constant frown on your face or MAYBE YOU DO ANYTHING YOU POSSIBLY CAN DO TO DETRACT ATTENTION AWAY FROM YOURSELF SO AS TO AVOID THE INTOLERABLE HURTFUL COMMENTS YOU HAVE ENDURED YOUR WHOLE LIFE. Then guess what girly? You have just been pushed into a corner... beaten into submission by a lifetime of negative comments about your breasts! I want you stand tall and walk proud. You are who you are. Believe me there are men out there who LOVE your breasts ... just the way the are! A ton of them! Do you think there would be magazines (Voluptuous and XL Girls) dedicated to all natural large breasted women if there weren't? They are not going out of business anytime soon as they have plenty of faithful readers.
LET 'EM HANG!
BACK TO CHERRY BRADY: BREAST AVENGER Excuses, Excuses, Excuses! There seem to be a lot of excuses for women to get breast reductions nowadays. Some doctors' web pages say that it is medically necessary. That’s a great excuse they are giving you. After you get it done you can feel assured that you did the right thing because it was medically necessary! You had to get it done. Just remember that your excuses are just excuses.
“I Have Back Problems” Almost every person who wants a breast reduction claims that they have back problems because of it. Well here's a news flash for you. Thirty-one million Americans have low back pain at any given time. (2) And guess what? They are not all large breasted women! Almost everyone has back problems from a lifetime of improper lifting, sitting, not stretching, overweight, not exercising,etc. If you have big breasts, they weren't put there overnight like a breast enhancement. As they grew, your back muscles strengthened to accommodate them. Oh sure, if you chopped your tits off, you would surely feel some relief, just the same as if a man chopped his cock and balls off, he would have less to carry around... but we don't see any men doing that do we? “They Are Saggy” Us boob lovers call those hangers and we love them! It's all in the way you look at it! Don't get fooled by the media into thinking that anything other than high and tight tits are bad. They are not. You've been blessed with big natural soft breasts...and if they have any size to them, they are gonna hang! Okay? That's the way it is and there's nothing wrong with that. It's beautiful - naturally beautiful. And here's another news flash for ya’ - the degree to which they hang has nothing to do with whether you wear a bra 24 hours a day. It's predetermined. Look at your mothers breasts or the breasts on your fathers side, that's how yours will look.
“My Clothes Don't Fit” Are you kidding? They fit better! There's nothing more beautiful than filling out a blouse. You don't hear boob job recipients complaining about that. The reason for that is they want to show off their newly acquired breasts, you don't! Appreciate what you have. You just saved yourself about $6000 by having naturally large breasts. Now go buy yourself some decent clothes!
“I Can't Find Bras In My Size” There out there. Just don't expect to get one off the rack at Sears. Nowadays with the internet you can find anything you want. Here are a few sites I have bought from: figleaves.com, cameo-intimates.com, biggerbras.com.
“I Can't Exercise Because My Breasts Are Too Big” That's odd, I can. I exercise every day. Oh sure... I'm not doing jumping jacks or running cross country.. but running is hard on the joints anyway. There are plenty of ways to exercise with low impact that are even better for you than running and jogging. Elliptical machines are fantastic! Stair climbers are different now and better than ever! The most strenuous exercise I have found is called racewalking. It’s far more than a bunch of old ladies scooting around the mall! There's a technique to it in which you shift your hips, position your body, and move your arms a certain way. I’ve watched a video on it and the competition racewalker in the video could walk faster than most people can run. I still cannot do it the proper way for more that 5 minutes at a time because it is strenuous and it works a lot of muscles. Here is a website that shows the step by step techniques for racewalking Look into it. As long as you aren’t running or doing jumping jacks, your jumblies won’t be put through any abuse. If I can do this exercise, then you can too!
“If I Get A Breast Reduction I Will Start Doing High Impact Sports Like Running” Bullshit!
“My Bra Strap Causes A Groove In My Shoulder From The Weight Of My Breasts” Neat! Thanks for sharing that with me. Now it’s my turn to share something: My husband has a bald spot on the inside of his right thigh from wearing his wiener on that side of his pants all the time.
“My Breasts Are Lopsided” I took an informal poll for you. I asked 100 self professed boob men if they had a choice, which would they pick: A) a woman with lopsided breasts or B) a woman who used to have lopsided breasts but got one reduced in an effort to match the other. Ninety-nine of them chose A - the woman without the reduction. The one who didn’t just divorced his wife because he realized that he is gay.
Still Not Convinced? Try the Non Surgical Alternative Diet and exercise. Take a good look at yourself, can you stand to lose a few extra pounds? I am 5'3" and weigh 142 lbs. I could stand to lose about 30 pounds. I guarantee that if I weighed 112 lbs my tits would be a helluva lot smaller than they are now! Don't read me wrong here - I'm not calling anyone a fatty. It's just that I have noticed that a lot of the women getting breast reductions have some weight issues to deal with. I am suggesting that getting surgery is easier than facing the truth that we may need to get into shape, the old fashioned way. I think we all know that losing weight is a rather simple process; it's just not an easy process! I'm sure it also wouldn't hurt a bit to strengthen and tone your muscles, especially your back and chest muscles. I challenge any woman who is considering this surgery to get into the top physical shape of her life before deciding. Become a fit, lean muscle machine and see if you still want to have the surgery. I doubt that you would. First, a lot of your self esteem issues would be diminished because your new ship-shape body will have you feeling like your on top of the world. Ever seen a bodybuilder hunched over and hiding his/her physique? Second, your boobs will be smaller anyway, reduction accomplished. If after doing that, you still want to get the surgery, even though you won't have nearly as much breasts to remove, then at least you will be in top physical condition in preparation for a surgery. (By the way, I have never seen a breast reduction in which it didn't leave nasty ugly scars. The results of these surgeries look like Frankentits!) Again, most women could accomplish a reduction simply by losing weight. I rarely see or hear of any skinny chicks getting a breast reduction. However, there are some, extremely rare, women who have incredibly large breasts and very thin bodies. If you are one of these rare beauties, then obviously losing weight may not apply, but please understand how marvelous and special you are and how that is even more reason for you not to get one.
Conclusion - Are You Going To Sell Out? Getting a reduction can be a highly regrettable act. Oh sure... if you do get one it is likely that you will continue to make excuses as to why you got it and by the time your ninety you'll have convinced yourself that it was the right thing to do. On the other hand, if you don't get a breast reduction you stand a chance of having more personal pride for not selling out. Please do not sell out to the latest trends of your era. You have the chance to be a legend in your time. It's time to look at the big picture - your big picture. In your life, none of the people who tried to make you feel bad will have mattered in the end if you don't sell out! Take a deep look inside before having this life changing procedure. ARE YOU COWERING DOWN TO A LIFETIME OF NASTY COMMENTS? Are you just needing to shed a few extra pounds? Or are you just living with an asshole who doesn't appreciate you? Don't sell out sister! Don't give those insecure, jealous, hateful people out there what they want. They want you to have your tits hacked off so they can feel better about themselves! If you get a reduction, they win and you lose a piece of yourself, literally and figuratively! Stand up straight and carry yourself with pride.
One Last Thing Whether you get a breast reduction surgery or not, I have no monetary gain. I started www.banbreastreductions.com because I WANT YOU TO KNOW that there are people out there who like your breasts, just the way they are.
I Like Your breasts! ...Just The Way They Are!
1. American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 2000/2001/2002/2003/2004 National Plastic Surgery Statistics - Cosmetic and Reconstructive Procedure Trends, 2005 www.plasticsurgery.org, 2. Jensen M, Brant-Zawadzki M, Obuchowski N, et al. Magnetic Resonance Imaging of the Lumbar Spine in People Without Back Pain. N Engl J Med 1994; 331: 69-116. |
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